Friday, February 27, 2009

How Dating Can Improve Your Marriage

Continued dating in a marriage is an important component to improving any marriage. "Secrets of a Happy Marriage Revealed" is an e-book that gives some good advice on what makes a happy marriage. The first two chapters - Romance and Passion and Rekindle the Flame - explains about dating and how it can improve your marriage.

Chapter 1 - Romance and Passion

This chapter begins with a few examples of couples reminiscing on their first date. Alex and Nina were married for 26 years and their first date was 28 years ago. Nina even remembered how long she stood in the mirror fixing her hair.

Belle was very nervous on her first date with Don. As a matter of fact she was so nervous, she tripped on the tablecloth and fell spilling the food all over her. You could only imagine how embarrassed she was. These are just two examples.

It then goes on to talk about what a first date could have been like. Going down to the beach after dinner and talking, learning more about each other, sitting down in the sand enjoying each other's company. The moment was perfect and then another date was set. Sleep was hard to come by just thinking about the moment and wondering if the feelings would last.

It then talks about romance and that romance does not have to be grand or a one time experience. It can be as simple as a kiss and that true romance can be eternal. It gives examples of what other couples do for romance. One husband actually scared the life out of his wife by grabbing her as she entered the door and pinning her against the wall. It was only the words he whispered in her ear that made her realize this was no attack. He got a good scolding, but he made up for it later.

It then explains that passion is a strong desire for something. So, if you have a strong desire to make your spouse happy, then you'll have a happier marriage.

Chapter 2 - Rekindle the Flame

Chapter 2 begins by talking about dating and that every relationship started with dating and it's importance in the courting process. Through dating you will determine whether it is healthy to see each other again or whether you're compatible together. It is through dating that you realize that this person is the center of your universe and he/she makes you very happy. You want these feelings to last so the wedding is planned. The day arrives and everything is perfect.

Does thinking about your early dating experience and your wedding day bring back good memories? Then dating on a regular basis is what is needed to keep the marriage going.

The chapter then goes on to explain the importance of dating after marriage and that it keeps the bond between you and your spouse intact. It again gives examples of what couples do to spend time together, especially those with children and hectic lifestyles.

"Secrets of a Happy Marriage Revealed" is an e-book well worth reading. The only thing though, there are a few typos and grammatical errors toward the beginning, but that does not take away from the information it provides on how to have a happy marriage.

To learn more on how you can improve your marriage get your copy of Secrets of a Happy Marriage Revealed

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